Hi @Lucas, I would consider this a major red flag. A doctor cannot diagnose you with hepatitis B without running blood tests. If you have not seen the results of blood tests that they ran, ask for a copy of those results. That being said, it seems likely that you do have hepatitis B, given that you said in your previous post that your siblings also have it. In that case, I would suspect that you probably contracted it from your mother at birth. I’m not sure why the tests that you got before coming to Canada showed that you were negative for hepatitis B, but I will say that tests are not 100% accurate, which is why I’d recommend that you get re-tested if you’re unsure.
A similar thing actually happened to me. I was adopted from China, and came to Canada as a baby. According to my parents, I tested negative for hepatitis B before I came to Canada. Several years later, my doctor ordered another test, and it was positive. I was referred to a gastroenterologist, where they did more tests that confirmed this diagnosis.
Trust in a patient-physician relationship is extremely important. Your doctor should help you feel informed about your condition, and explain treatment options to you before prescribing anything, so that you can understand the risks/benefits. It sounds like that is not happening for you. I know that this is hard to do in the Canadian healthcare system, but if possible, I would try to get a second opinion. They might give you the same diagnosis, but if they are able to help you feel informed, empowered, and hopeful about the future, it’s so, so worth it.
I understand where you’re coming from with this. Dating when you have hepatitis B is hard. On one hand, you need to disclose your condition to any sexual partners, because of course we don’t want to cause harm to other people. But on the other hand, we want to build enough trust with someone before we feel comfortable disclosing. This is something I personally struggle with as well. Especially these days when it seems like everyone just wants to hop in bed together right away (sorry, I really don’t know of a nicer way to say this). But please, please know that if you’ve gotten hep B from mother to child transmission, it’s NOT your fault, and you didn’t do anything wrong. Also, if it makes you feel any better, taking antiviral medications (e.g. tenofovir or entacavir) significantly decreases the likelihood that you will pass the virus onto someone else, so I wouldn’t worry so much.